I wish someone told 15 year old us that the reason we got defensive about having ADHD (inattentive type) and got offended about Autism exclusive things is because we didn’t have ADHD. We just had undiagnosed ASD / a misdiagnosis for 3 years, lol. I still see this happen with people who either self diagnosed ADHD or are possibly misdiagnosed with it. If you’re mad that you have traits or behaviors or want to use terms that are Autism exclusive, it’s because you’re Autistic!!

If you wonder about autistic traits I highly recommend taking this! It’s the RAADS-R, which is the Diagnostic scale used to diagnose autism!

And on that note, diagnosis is a privilege. I am privileged to be diagnosed!!! I don’t understand the gatekeepy behavior of the Autistic diagnosis / label. If someone has educated themself, and believes that based on that research they are autistic and unable to afford or receive diagnosis… who cares! Let them.

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i haven't seen this here yet so heads up

Here’s the link with instructions on how to opt out of arbitration.

I actually wouldn't get by without my Etsy and there's nowhere else I'd be able to go that makes as much money. lol

春の花咲く三千院 // 'Sanzen-in, where spring flowers bloom'

i like tumblr bc everyone ik irl thinks this shit completely died off so i can hide here and enjoy content in peace

jokes that will literally never not be funny to me:

• saying “speedrun strats” every time you fuck up
  
• saying “first try” when you’ve tried the thing like 15 times, minimum
  

• saying “skill issue” when something is 100% outside of anyone’s control

me individually reviewing the lyrics for every single song on a character playlist nobody else will ever hear for an oc approximately 3 people know about

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